Comments (1) | Posted by Selena on January 31, 2011
Mixing business with pleasure
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Ever get the advice: ”make a career out of what you love doing” ?
…only if you can risk resenting it later.
My friend is a fabulous cook. He was the one that would effortlessly whip up a delectable meal, with passion. We would always tell him as we’re stuffing our faces with his creations, “you should make a living doing this!! You’d be SO good at it!”
He followed his dream and quit his office job to start his own restaurant. And it is damn good. Except for one thing: his passion is now a job.
We forgot the cardinal rule, “don’t mix business with pleasure.” This tidbit applies to more than racy office romances. My friend considered cooking a pleasure. Cooking was his happy place to escape the mundane 9-5 grind. He tells me that now, when he gets home from his “dream job,” he doesn’t even want to look at his kitchen. Instead of happily whipping up a tasty dinner, he’s resorted to a fast food drive-thru on the way home.
Maybe we all go through stages like this. I have a passion for my career, but I’ve had moments in my car when all I want to listen to is silence. I need time to reset, for sanity’s sake, before my job consumes my passion. Once refreshed, (ie, I’m done talking to myself in the car. Out loud.) the radio is back on.
Do you have a career that has turned something you love into a job? Are “dream jobs” overrated?
Froggy 101’s Wake Up Call with Eric & Selena will be discussing this Tuesday morning at 7am.

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